On January 24, 2011, Dream Weddings blogged about the most important questions to ask yourself when you are engaged. We decided to share the the questions we believe are key to begin planning for the big day.
Is having all of your friends and family present a must? Or did you dream of a small wedding at a French castle with your parents and siblings? Maybe you wanted to elope in Vegas style, Elvis wedding and all. Make sure you discuss it with your spouse now before you decide on the date (it will make the next steps easier).
What kind of experience do you want to have?
Now that you know what each other wants, discuss the experience you want to have. This is a great exercise in compromise if you didn’t see eye-to-eye when discussing the first question. If he wants a small, destination wedding and you imagine a large wedding in a church, you can find middle ground! Talk budget, because it can add up quickly; budget doesn’t have to limit your experience, but knowing what’s most important to you will help figure out what’s best for you.
When do you want to get married?
The time has come to pick a date! Saving up to create your dream wedding experience might push your wedding out a year or two, and that’s OK because you know it’s important to both of you! However, you should choose a venue now. Dates fill up quickly, especially Saturdays. Picking your venues for your ceremony and reception will save a lot of headache later.
What are the next steps? What should we secure?
- photographer, videographer
- save the date/invitations
- dress
- caterer
- florist
- and other wedding professionals who will make your experience memorable
All wedding professionals agree that the earlier you book, the better. You don’t have to book everything at once, especially if you are saving up. Remember what’s most important to you and have fun planning!
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